London

London is close to our hearts. It’s where we met and lived for decades and whilst we now call Amsterdam home we still have very strong connections to London. It’s changed a fair bit in the years we’ve lived in Amsterdam and the scene changes frequently as is the case with many global cities of this size.

“When a man is tired of London, he is tired of life.”

Samuel Johnson 1777

London, a sprawling metropolis, lives up to its reputation as a city of endless discovery. Even seasoned travelers find themselves continually surprised by its sheer breadth of attractions. From the vibrant pulse of Trafalgar Square to the historical depths of the Tower of London and the regal splendor of Buckingham Palace, London offers a diverse tapestry of experiences. World-class museums and galleries, such as the British Museum, Tate Modern, and National Gallery, stand alongside sprawling green spaces like St. James’s Park, Primrose Hill, and Hyde Park, providing havens of tranquility amidst the urban buzz. Furthermore, London’s legendary LGBTQIA+ nightlife, boasting iconic venues like Heaven and The Vauxhall Tavern, rivals the best in Europe.

A unique energy permeates London, whether you’re strolling along the South Bank at sunset or navigating the bustling crowds of London Bridge during rush hour. This dynamic city, a global tourism powerhouse, attracts over 30 million visitors annually. To truly immerse yourself in its vibrant diversity, embrace the crowds and use this guide as a starting point for exploring one of the world’s most captivating cities.

Gay bars in London

When I moved to London all the gay bars were in Earls Couort and Hammersmith then they all moved to Soho and Vauxhall. Now it seems Elephant & Castle is the new upcoming area. Our good friends live here and the grindr grid is popping in this area.

Betty & Joan’s

Betty & Joan’s is London’s newest gay bar. Named after two comedy icons, Betty White and Joan Rivers. Betty & Joan’s is owned by a small team of dedicated queer people who believe in creating incredible spaces for our community.  The first place we created was The Queer Comedy Club – literally the first LGBTQ+ stand up comedy club in the UK (and possibly the world).

The Rising SE1

The Rising SE1 is a gay-friendly pub located near Elephant and Castle. It offers a traditional pub atmosphere with a welcoming vibe. They have a good selection of drinks and often show sports events.

  • Address: 19 Newington Causeway, London SE1 6DB, UK
  • No Official Website

Rupert Street Bar

This was our local for years and is still a go to favourite. For those seeking a chic LGBTQIA+ bar in Soho, Rupert Street Bar is a great choice. As one of London’s longest-running gay venues, this stylish bar is known for glamour and fun.

The King’s Arms

A traditional gay pub in Soho, The King’s Arms offers a cozy and welcoming atmosphere. It’s a popular spot for a casual drink, with friendly staff and a relaxed vibe. Known for its traditional pub decor and a good selection of beers, it’s a great place to unwind and socialize.

  • Address: 23 Poland St, London W1F 8QJ, UK
  • Website: No official website. Information found on social media and pub listings.

The Duke of Wellington

Located in Soho, The Duke of Wellington is a lively gay pub known for its energetic atmosphere and drag shows. It’s a popular destination for those looking for a fun night out, with regular entertainment and a vibrant crowd.

  • Address: 77 Wardour St, London W1D 6QA, UK
  • Website: No official website. Information found on social media and pub listings.

Halfway To Heaven

Halfway To Heaven is a popular and lively gay bar in the heart of London’s West End. Known for its friendly atmosphere, drag shows, and cabaret performances, it’s a great spot for a fun night out.

Retro Bar

Retro Bar is a centrally located bar known for its friendly staff, good music, and relaxed atmosphere. It’s a popular spot with both locals and tourists.

Heaven

Turns out, Heaven is a real place on Earth. Tucked beneath the arches of Charing Cross station, this legendary gay mega-club has been a cornerstone of London’s LGBTQIA+ scene for decades. With multiple spaces offering diverse music genres, it caters to all tastes. Home to the iconic G-A-Y party, Heaven has also hosted some of music’s biggest names.

Royal Vauxhall Tavern

From its Victorian music hall origins to its current status as an iconic LGBTQIA+ venue, the Royal Vauxhall Tavern is a London landmark. It hosts a diverse range of events, from drag queen extravaganzas to themed club nights like the popular bear night, Beefmince.

Eagle London (and Bear Bash)

One of London’s most iconic gay clubs, Eagle London boasts a large, stylish space with a dance floor and garden. Weeknights offer a laid-back bar atmosphere, while weekends heat up with club nights like Sunday’s Horse Meat Disco, attracting a diverse crowd seeking pure joy.
Our friends run a club night here (and in Amsterdam called Bear Bash which you should check out!)

CIRCA The Club

A stone’s throw from Heaven and Embankment station, CIRCA The Club exudes sophistication and sass. Its industrial-chic design sets the stage for resident DJs spinning house and R&B classics on Friday and Saturday nights, creating a vibrant dance floor atmosphere.

Comptons of Soho

A long-standing fixture in London’s gay scene, Comptons of Soho offers a classic pub experience. The ground floor features a traditional wood-paneled bar, while the upstairs lounge provides a more relaxed vibe. Attracting a mature crowd, it’s perfect for a weekday pint or a lively weekend gathering.

G-A-Y Bar

Located in the heart of Soho, G-A-Y Bar is a popular destination for a young, fun-loving LGBTQIA+ crowd. Its three floors offer diverse atmospheres, with a small terrace on the top level and a chicer vibe in the basement. Affordable drinks make it a hit any night of the week.

Cocktails – Iain Croll

Ku Bar Soho

On the corner of Lisle Street and Newport Place, Ku Bar Soho is a multi-level experience. Its champagne bar, nightly DJs, and friendly atmosphere make it a popular spot. The downstairs gay club adds to the fun, and the often-shirtless staff are a definite draw.

The Yard

Opposite Rupert Street bar, The Yard is a stylish gay bar known for its inviting garden courtyard and loft-style upstairs. With exposed brick and wooden beams, it offers a rustic-chic vibe. The friendly bartenders, often shirtless, and the tasty happy hour add to its appeal.

Dalston Superstore

Dalston Superstore is a queer paradise, blending a cafe, gallery, performance space, and bar. With vegan-friendly menus, weekend drag brunches, and DJs, it offers a vibrant and inclusive atmosphere.

Fold

A queer-friendly techno haven in North-East London, Fold offers a raw, industrial vibe reminiscent of Berghain, but without the door policy. Sundays are ‘Unfold,’ its most popular night, attracting techno-loving LGBTQIA+ crowds.

Roast

This “beefy men” gay club, held twice a month on Saturdays, is hidden behind Angel station in a former warehouse. With three floors, it features EDM dance floors and an intense darkroom.

  • Address: Location varies, check their social media.
  • Information: Search “Roast London” on social media.

WE Party UK

Held on the first Saturday of each month, WE Party UK is a massive dance party with world-class DJs, stunning visuals, and sexy dancers.

  • Information: Search “WE Party UK” on social media for event details.

Club Kali

A monthly event since 1995, Club Kali features Bollywood, Bhangra, and Arabic tunes with Western pop. Expect dancing, drag, and a mixed crowd.

Vault 139

Vault 139 is a vibrant gay bar and sex club located in Fitzrovia. Known for its lively atmosphere and diverse crowd, it offers a space for dancing, socialising, and enjoying a range of adult entertainment. With its friendly staff and varied events, Vault 139 is a popular destination for those seeking a fun and sexy night out.

London Gay Events

Pride in London

Pride in London, held annually near the end of June, is the UK’s largest and most diverse Pride celebration, drawing over a million visitors. This week-long extravaganza features more than 60 events, including parties, workshops, and cultural gatherings, spread across the city. The highlight is the iconic parade, which winds its way through London’s streets, passing landmarks like Piccadilly Circus and Trafalgar Square.

  • Dates: June 28, 2025 (Expected – confirmed dates should be checked on the site closer to the time)
  • Website: https://prideinlondon.org/

UK Black Pride

UK Black Pride is Europe’s largest celebration for LGBTQIA+ people of African, Asian, Middle Eastern, Latin American, and Caribbean heritage, held during Pride Month. In addition to the main event, they host various activities throughout the year, focusing on education, arts, cultural events, and advocacy.

Fetish Week London

Fetish Week London is the city’s premier leather and fetish festival, featuring a series of events at different venues. Highlights include an opening social, bondage masterclasses, and the grand finale, Full Fetish at Coronet, with its large dance floor, international DJs, and themed cruising areas.

Soho – Iain Croll

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Culture, Sightseeing & Activities in London

Where to start! Okay so having lived here for so long we are going to miss many things people who are only in town for the weekend want to do I am sure but here is a list in no particular order.

Buckingham Palace

The official residence of the British monarch, Buckingham Palace, is a must-see. Its grand gates, the Victoria Memorial, and surrounding parks (St. James’s, Green, and Hyde) create a quintessential London experience. Witness the Changing of the Guard (Mon, Wed, Fri, Sun at 10:45 am) or tour the State Rooms (summer only). The Royal Mews are open year-round.

Tower of London

A historic castle on the Thames’s north bank, the Tower of London houses the Crown Jewels, Yeoman Warders, and ravens. It also highlights LGBTQ+ royal histories.

The Palace of Westminster (Houses of Parliament)

This Gothic Revival building houses the UK Parliament. Its Elizabeth Tower (Big Ben) is iconic. Best photos are from Westminster Bridge. Tours are available with advance booking.

St. Paul’s Cathedral

A magnificent Baroque cathedral with a famous dome. The Whispering and Golden Galleries offer stunning views. It was the site of Princess Diana’s wedding.

British Museum

Located in Bloomsbury, this museum has a collection spanning 2 million years of human history with over eight million artifacts. Entry is free.

The National Gallery

In Trafalgar Square, this museum houses over 2,300 paintings from the mid-13th century to 1900. Free entry, but booking is required.

Tate Modern

A contemporary art museum in the former Bankside Power Station, connected by the Millennium Bridge. Features international modern art. Tate Britain is its sister museum.

London Eye

A giant observation wheel on the South Bank, offering panoramic views of London.

Somerset House

A historic site and arts center, home to the UK’s largest creative community. Features exhibitions by emerging artists.

Queer Britain

The UK’s first LGBTQ+ museum, located in Kings Cross. Showcases British queer history. Free admission.

Borough Market

A historic food market in Southwark, near London Bridge station. Offers a variety of food and gifts.

Camden Town

A neighborhood known for its alternative culture, street art, and markets. Cyberdog is a notable shop.

  • Address: Camden High St, London NW1 8NH, UK
  • Website: Information found on local travel websites.

Hampstead Heath

A large park in North London with panoramic views from Parliament Hill and a men-only swimming pond.

O2 Arena

An entertainment complex in Greenwich, offering concerts, events, and “Up at The O2” rooftop climbs.

ABBA Voyage

A virtual concert experience featuring “ABBAtars,” located in Queen Elizabeth Olympic Park.

Restaurants and Cafes in London

There are so many but one thing to keep in mind is many places to a pre-theatre dinner set menu for a very affordable price.

Old Compton Brasserie

The new Balans. Located in the heart of Soho, Old Compton Brasserie offers a vibrant and stylish dining experience. With a menu featuring modern British cuisine and a lively atmosphere, it’s a popular spot for brunch, lunch, dinner, and cocktails. The brasserie’s chic interior and friendly service make it a great place to enjoy a meal with friends or a pre-theater dinner.

Balans Soho Society

This Soho institution offers a bohemian and sophisticated atmosphere with a touch of eccentricity. Their menu features delicious bites like their infamous Balans burger, alongside cheeky cocktails like the Porn Star and Burlesque-teez. Whether you’re looking for a relaxed breakfast, a sociable brunch, a leisurely lunch, or a delightful dinner, Balans delivers a quintessential Soho experience. With two locations in Soho (Balans 60 and Balans 34), you can enjoy their quirky ambiance and delicious food no matter where you are in the neighborhood.

Ham Yard Bar & Restaurant

Located in the Ham Yard Hotel, this stylish bar and restaurant offers a sophisticated and contemporary dining experience. With a menu featuring modern European cuisine and a lively atmosphere, it’s a popular spot for cocktails, lunch, and dinner. The restaurant’s chic interior, designed by Kit Kemp, and its outdoor terrace create a vibrant and inviting space.

Hotels

We normally stay now at the Hub in Soho because it is next door to the London apartment so we know the area but it’s not exactly luxurious. I also stay at the St Giles sometimes which is also well located.

London – Iain Croll

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