Cologne

We love Cologne, or Köln depending which part of the world you are coming from, and visit mainly in the summer around CSD but it’s great anytime of year. Things to note especially if coming from Amsterdam is that they much prefer cash than cards in Germany. So bear that in mind. Also important to note is that most things are closed on a Sunday including supermarkets. It’s also a lot less expensive to eat out than in Amsterdam as our friends from Cologne often remind us.

Cologne is a German metropolis, the nation’s fourth-largest city, offers a compelling alternative to Berlin’s renowned party scene, attracting LGBTQIA+ travellers seeking to explore Germany’s diverse urban landscape. As a member of Germany’s “gay five”—Berlin, Munich, Hamburg, Frankfurt, and Cologne—Cologne exudes a distinct personality, blending a refined, mature ambiance with a playful, readily apparent mischievous streak. It helps that the gay disctricts are quite well contained so once you have found one bar you don’t need to traverse the city to find another.

Gay bars in Cologne

ExCorner

Right at the heart of the west-side gay scene, ExCorner is the most popular bar with a younger crowd. On weekends, the crowds spill out onto the street, thanks to the street-drinking rule. The interior is a mix of traditional Kölsch pub and modern gay bar, and the music is a blend of German pop hits and dance tunes.

Gloria

Gloria is a multi-purpose venue with a rich history, originally a cinema, and now a center for the gay and lesbian community, hosting parties, comedy shows, and concerts. While not exclusively a gay bar, it hosts many events for the gay scene and attracts a mixed audience.

era Cafe & Bar

Cure neighbourhood bar and cafe that gets afternoon sun with a terrace. It’s a great meeting place especially during CSD where it is a short stroll the the main actvities.

Barcelon Colonia

Over on the east side of town in the Heumarkt-Mathiasstraße gay area of the Old Town, Barcelon is one of the most popular gay bars—especially with bears. The name comes from its artistic tile mosaics inspired by Gaudí, crafted with tiles imported from Barcelona. The cocktails are great, and so is the big sun terrace.

Amadeus

It’s pink, it’s fabulous, it’s fun, and they serve both cake and cocktails. Amadeus is another gay bar on the east side of town with a lot of atmosphere. They also host drag shows and themed events.

My Lord (by Olli)

Situated on Mühlenbach, My Lord is a super-friendly gay bar that’s very popular with older guys and their admirers. It has cozy pub vibes with its half-timbered interior, and the staff are particularly welcoming.

Kattwinkel Bar

Located on Greesbergstraße, Kattwinkel Bar is beloved by the local LGBTQ+ community and has won awards from local gay magazines. The bar exudes a warm and cozy ambiance, with comfortable seating, eclectic décor, and plenty of space—including a huge terrace with lovely views of the surrounding area! An institution in the Eigelstein district for many years.

Iron Cocktail Lounge

As you’d expect from the name, this lounge serves the best cocktails in the gayborhood—crafted by some of the hottest bartenders as a bonus. Iron has a nightclub feel, with neon lights, a dance floor, and DJs. It’s a guaranteed great start to a night out. Mixed gay-hetero-lesbian cocktail lounge bar.

Exile

Situated in the heart of the “Bermuda Triangle,” Exile is one of the busiest gay bars/clubs on Schaafenstraße. It features live DJs on weekends playing pop music, a dance floor, two bars, and a seating area, making it something between a bar and a club. The crowd tends to be young, attractive, and most likely single!

Die Mumu

Die Mumu blurs the lines between a lively bar and a vibrant club, nestled within Cologne’s ‘Bermuda Triangle’ gay district. Expect a playful, campy vibe, with glittery stars and disco balls adorning the pink walls. Resident DJs spin a mix of pop and dance tunes, transforming the space into a pulsating dance floor on weekend nights. Note: Very young.

Kinkz

Step into a world where inhibitions are left at the door. Kinkz invites you to explore your adventurous side with its unapologetically fetish-friendly atmosphere. Leather, rubber, and all things kinky find a home here, amidst dim lighting and dance cages designed for nocturnal escapades.

Deck 5

Located in Cologne’s historic Old Town, Deck 5 is a discreet gay cruise bar catering to a mature clientele. Its intimate setting, complete with a basement dark room, provides a space for those seeking a more private encounter. Primarily attracting men in their 40s and 50s, it offers a relaxed atmosphere for those looking to connect.

Cologne Gay Saunas

Babylon Cologne

Located conveniently in the city center, Babylon Cologne is a sauna that’s as easy to find as it is to enjoy. We actually stumbled upon it during the last CSD, and were really surprised at just how nice it was. What truly sets it apart is its impressive outdoor pool in the courtyard, the setting for lively pool parties throughout the year. The sauna itself is quite spacious, featuring a Roman-inspired design that includes a Finnish sauna, steam bath, whirlpool, dark rooms, private cubicles, a garden, a bar, and comfortable lounge areas. It’s a surprisingly well-rounded experience.

Gay Events in Cologne

Cologne Pride (CSD Cologne)

Cologne Pride, also known as Christopher Street Day (CSD) Cologne, is a monumental celebration of LGBTQIA+ rights and culture, rivaling Berlin’s in scale and drawing massive crowds to the city. This two-week festival, typically held in early July, boasts a packed schedule of over 100 events, from thought-provoking political discussions and captivating cultural showcases to exhilarating parties. The highlight is the vibrant parade that snakes through the city center, a powerful display of unity and pride. A notable event within CSD is the Dyke March Cologne, emphasizing lesbian visibility and advocacy.

Cologne CSD 2017 – Iain Croll

Cologne Fetish Pride

Cologne’s thriving fetish scene takes center stage at Cologne Fetish Pride, one of Europe’s premier fetish events. This five-day celebration, organized by Rheinfetisch e.V., occurs in June, coinciding with the Whitsun weekend. Attendees can immerse themselves in a diverse program featuring a fetish boat party (hosting the Mr. Fetish events), lively pub crawls, a decadent fetish brunch, themed parties, and educational workshops covering rope work and other BDSM practices.

Carnival (Jeck op Deck)

Carnival in Cologne is a legendary affair, with festivities spanning February and March, and a smaller celebration in November. Jeck op Deck (“All Clown on Deck”) is a unique LGBTQIA+-focused costume boat party that sets sail on the Rhine. Held the weekend before the main Carnival events, it features lively performances by a brass band, sea shanty choruses, dance groups, and welcomes around 1,500 costumed guests.

  • Dates: February 22, 2025. February 14, 2026.
  • Information spread via social media of organisers. Search for Jeck op Deck on Facebook.

Heavenue Cologne

Embrace the festive spirit at Heavenue Cologne, a gay Christmas market that transforms the holiday season into a campy wonderland. This enchanting market, reminiscent of a gay Christmas fantasy, features dazzling lights, whimsical pop art installations, festive stalls, live entertainment, and food vendors offering mulled wine and traditional German sausages. It operates throughout late November and December at KölnBonn near Rudolfplatz.

Bear Pride Cologne

Bear Pride Cologne is an annual international gathering that celebrates the bear community. Typically held at the end of November in Cologne, Germany. The event features a diverse array of activities, including parties, bar nights, sauna events, sightseeing tours, and the esteemed Mr. Bear Germany contest.

Gayoween

Gayoween is Cologne’s premier LGBTQIA+ Halloween celebration, a night of extravagant costumes, energetic music, and captivating performances. Annually held on October 31st at Quater 1, the event offers two distinct dance floors: a pop floor and a house floor, catering to a wide range of musical tastes.

  • Dates: October 31, 2024. October 31, 2025, October 31 2026
  • Quater 1, Hohenzollernring 1, 50672 Köln, Germany.
  • gayoween.com

About Cologne

Cologne welcomes visitors year-round, but the shoulder seasons offer an ideal blend of fewer crowds, more affordable accommodations, and pleasant weather. However, Cologne’s reputation for hosting lively events makes it a compelling destination regardless of the season. The city’s Pride celebration in July is one of Europe’s largest, while its legendary Carnival in February is complemented by a smaller, equally enjoyable event in November. Cologne’s Christmas markets are also renowned, making it a perfect choice for a festive winter getaway.

Cologne is consistently one of Germany’s most LGBTQIA+-friendly cities, ensuring a welcoming atmosphere regardless of political shifts. The city features two distinct gay areas: Heumarkt-Mathiasstrasse in the east, catering to an older crowd and housing cruising bars, and Rudolfplatz-Schaafenstrasse in the west, attracting a younger demographic and home to the city’s saunas. Visitors can choose to explore either or both areas.

When visiting Cologne, or Germany in general, it’s helpful to be aware of certain cultural norms. Germans are known for their adherence to rules, and here are a few key points: jaywalking is strictly avoided, cash payments are often preferred, water is typically not complimentary in restaurants and cafes, waiters may appear reserved but it’s not personal, shops (including supermarkets) are closed on Sundays, restroom use often requires payment, and blocking bike lanes is a serious offense. On the other hand, public drinking is permitted, and a unique custom involves placing empty bottles atop bins for homeless individuals to collect and redeem for money.

The city’s skyline, particularly when viewed from the Rhine’s banks, is a striking testament to resilience. Despite significant wartime destruction, the magnificent Kölner Dom, a Gothic cathedral, survived, becoming Germany’s most visited landmark. This historical treasure, along with twelve Romanesque churches and the old town, contrasts with the city’s modern reconstruction and the vibrant energy of its university students.

Cologne boasts a vibrant arts scene, a dynamic nightlife, and a prominent LGBTQIA+ presence. Its cultural offerings range from the Museum Ludwig, housing the world’s third-largest Picasso collection, to the Römisch-Germanisches Museum, showcasing Roman-era artifacts. The city’s annual Christopher Street Day Parade is a major European pride event, and its twice-yearly Carnival celebrations reflect a spirit of joyous abandon. Cologne also features two distinct gay scenes: the east side, catering to a mature, often leather-clad crowd, and the west side, centred around the “Bermuda Triangle,” a hub of bars and clubs popular with a younger demographic. Both scenes coexist harmoniously, embodying Cologne’s inclusive spirit. This city offers a diverse array of experiences, making it a worthy destination for a weekend getaway. And while you’re there, be sure to sample the local Kölsch beer, a source of local pride.

Airport Transfer and Transportation

Cologne Bonn Airport (CGN) is conveniently located just 15 kilometers (9 miles) from the city center and is well-served by public transportation. The most efficient and cost-effective option is the regional train, specifically the S-Bahn line S19, which provides a swift 15-minute journey to Köln Hauptbahnhof, the city’s central station, at a fare of approximately €3. For those seeking a direct route, taxis are readily available, with fares typically ranging from €25 to €30 for a trip to the city center. Private transfer services can also be pre-arranged for added convenience.

Once within Cologne, navigating the city is made easy by its highly efficient public transportation system. An extensive network of trams, buses, and trains is available, with the S-Bahn (metro) offering a particularly user-friendly experience. For frequent travellers, purchasing a multi-day ticket provides unlimited access, enhancing both convenience and cost-effectiveness.

Culture, Sightseeing & Activities in Cologne

Cologne Cathedral (Kölner Dom)

This UNESCO World Heritage Site is an awe-inspiring Gothic masterpiece and one of Germany’s most iconic landmarks. It’s the tallest twin-spired church in the world, with its spires dominating the skyline at 515 feet. Construction began in 1248 and took over 600 years to complete, resulting in intricate craftsmanship and stunning stained glass windows. Visitors can marvel at the vast interior, which houses treasures like the Shrine of the Three Kings. Climb the 533 steps of the South Tower for a predictably amazing view.

Cologne Old Town

Cologne has everything you could want from a German old town: quaint cafes and bakeries, colorful gabled houses, buzzing squares, cobblestoned streets, historical churches, and old-school German pubs serving the local Kölsch beer. The banks of the River Rhine running alongside it are the ideal place to grab a strudel and enjoy the view.

St. Martin’s Church

You’re spoilt for choice when it comes to historic churches in Cologne, and if the cathedral isn’t enough, you have eleven other large churches to visit. St. Martin’s is the most popular. The Romanesque church, located in Cologne’s Old Town, is easily recognizable by its towering quadrilateral structure and distinctive turrets.

Rhine River Cruise

Riverside cities always look good from the water, and this is especially true for Cologne. You can either take a short hour-long panoramic cruise, seeing the best of the city from the Old Town to the modern crane houses in the Rheinauhafen district, or make a romantic evening of it on a themed evening cruise with an illuminated cityscape, live music, and dinner.

Hohenzollern Bridge

The Hohenzollern Bridge, which was reconstructed stronger than ever after World War II, offers wonderful views of the cityscape.

  • Hohenzollernbrücke, 50679 Köln

Museum Ludwig

For something a little different from the city’s historical sites, head to the Museum Ludwig for an extensive collection of modern art, including works by Picasso, Warhol, and Lichtenstein.

Römisch-Germanisches Museum

Adjacent to the cathedral, this museum is a fascinating repository of artifacts showcasing the city’s rich Roman and early medieval history.

Cologne Cable Cars

This aerial tramway connects the Rhine River’s east and west banks. The journey provides breathtaking panoramic views of the city skyline.

Cologne Botanical Gardens

Established in 1864, the free-to-enter gardens feature 10,000 plant species from around the world across beautifully landscaped areas.

Belgium Quarter

Cologne’s trendiest neighborhood has streets all named after Belgian cities. Located west of the city center, it boasts an eclectic mix of boutique shops, art galleries, and independent cafes.

  • Belgium Quarter, 50672 Köln, Germany.

Restaurants and Cafés

Era Café & Bar

As the name implies, Era is a café by day with homemade cakes, specialty coffees, and a good breakfast menu. By night, it transforms into a bar with an extensive cocktail list. Located right within the Rudolfplatz gayborhood and boasting a large outdoor terrace, it’s a great place to immerse yourself in the local gay scene, whether by day or night.

Café Rico

This gay-friendly café in Cologne’s fashion district, not far from the westside gay area, is the go-to spot for LGBTQ+ locals seeking coffee or brunch. It features a charming outdoor terrace, a tasty menu, and delicious Viennese-style coffee. Occasionally, they also host lounge parties.

Peters Brauhaus

You can’t visit Germany without having the full beerhouse experience—it’s practically a requirement—and they always serve the best traditional German food. Peters Brauhaus, located in Cologne’s historic Old Town, is a cherished establishment offering just that. The menu features hearty dishes like smoked and boiled pork with sauerkraut and mashed potatoes, and the Peters brewhouse plate, which includes two small pork schnitzels. All this is best washed down with Peters Kölsch, a crisp and refreshing beer brewed in-house. The interior enhances the experience with its wooden furnishings and stained-glass accents.

Brauhaus Pütz

Another excellent option for traditional German food, located in the Rudolfplatz gayborhood. This quaint beerhouse may be small, but its atmosphere and menu are anything but. It’s one of the best places to enjoy German sausage—outside of the sauna—as well as specialties like crispy pork knuckle and “Himmel un Ääd” (mashed potatoes with apple sauce and black pudding). One of its coolest features is a central open tapping area where patrons can watch the Köbes (traditional waiters) at work.

Cloud Kitchen

For a more chic, modern option, head to Cloud Kitchen, which specialises in all-day brunches. Its location in Rudolfplatz makes it especially popular with the local LGBTQ+ community and those who love sharing meals on Instagram. The menu features hearty breads, vibrant smoothie bowls, and avocado burgers, catering to both vegetarians and non-vegetarians. Also available in Dusseldorf.

Hotels

We normally stay at the Steigenberger since it’s near a lot of the gay bars and our friends live nearby but there are plenty of great other options too.

Steigenberger Hotel Köln

The Steigenberger Hotel Köln offers a sophisticated stay in the heart of the city. Its central location provides easy access to Cologne’s main attractions, shopping districts, and vibrant nightlife. The hotel boasts modern and stylish rooms, equipped with all the amenities for a comfortable stay. Guests can enjoy a delicious breakfast buffet, unwind at the bar, or indulge in culinary delights at the on-site restaurant. With its elegant ambiance and convenient location, the Steigenberger Hotel Köln is an excellent choice for discerning travelers.

Wasserturm Hotel Cologne, Curio Collection by Hilton

Housed in a historic landmark that was once Europe’s tallest water tower, the Wasserturm Hotel Cologne offers a unique blend of historical grandeur and modern luxury. While the exterior exudes old-world charm, the interior is all about refined elegance, with rustic touches like exposed brickwork and arched windows adding character. Beyond the beautifully appointed rooms, guests can enjoy a fitness center, spa, boutique, and an on-site restaurant. But the true highlight is the rooftop bar, boasting panoramic 360-degree views of the city skyline, including the iconic Cologne Cathedral.

Maritim Hotel Köln

More than just a hotel, the Maritim Hotel Köln is an experience. Its stunning glass-covered atrium, reminiscent of a high-end shopping arcade, houses a variety of boutiques and six diverse dining options. Guests can also take advantage of the spacious indoor pool, sauna, and fitness center. Indulge in the lavish breakfast buffet at the Rôtisserie restaurant, savor international cuisine at the roof garden restaurant, enjoy the rustic charm of the Kölsche Stuff pub, or unwind with a drink at the stylish Piano Bar. The elegantly decorated rooms offer picturesque views of the Rhine River, adding to the hotel’s allure.

Mercure Hotel Köln City Friesenstraße

This 4-star hotel proves that simplicity can be stylish. Located in the vibrant Friesenviertel district, it offers a prime downtown location within walking distance of major attractions like the Cologne Cathedral and conveniently situated between both of the city’s main gay scenes. The hotel’s cozy ambiance extends to its well-appointed rooms, providing a comfortable and welcoming retreat. The on-site restaurant serves regional and international cuisine, and the bar is a perfect spot to sample the local Kölsch beer. A generous breakfast buffet and a terrace complete the experience. The hotel proudly displays a pride flag during Pride season, demonstrating its commitment to LGBTQIA+ inclusivity.

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